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What to Wear for a Networking Mixer with a Soft, Shy but Confident Mood

Translating a 'soft and shy but confident' mood into networking attire means finding clothes that blend gentle colors, delicate fabrics, and flattering but unfussy silhouettes. The following suggestions combine approachable elegance with subtle flair—perfect for making a warm, genuine impression. If you’d like more details (budget, dress code specifics, or style preferences), let me know!
@rem0nia
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Pastel Colored Midi Length Dress
Soft pastel tones convey a gentle, approachable vibe but in a midi length, which feels polished and grown-up. This style is easy to move in and photograph, helping you stand out in a quietly confident way.
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Pastel Colored Midi Length Dress
@rem0nia
Soft pastel tones convey a gentle, approachable vibe but in a midi length, which feels polished and grown-up. This style is easy to move in and photograph, helping you stand out in a quietly confident way.
Altuzarra Aether printed midi dress
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Altuzarra

Aether printed midi dress

$747

$1,495

Mytheresa

Jil Sander  Asymmetric midi dress
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Jil Sander

Asymmetric midi dress

$1,050

$1,750

Mytheresa

Maticevski Singular open-back cocktail dress
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Maticevski

Singular open-back cocktail dress

$1,277

$1,825

Mytheresa

Monique Lhuillier Belted lace midi dress
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Monique Lhuillier

Belted lace midi dress

$3,295

Mytheresa

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@withameliataylor
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Bow Neck Blouse
A ladylike bow-tie blouse signals both classic femininity and assurance. It's a conversation starter with vintage inspiration, and works well with tailored pants or a skirt.
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Bow Neck Blouse
@withameliataylor
A ladylike bow-tie blouse signals both classic femininity and assurance. It's a conversation starter with vintage inspiration, and works well with tailored pants or a skirt.
Gabriela Hearst Shildon tie-neck silk blouse
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Gabriela Hearst

Shildon tie-neck silk blouse

$1,490

Mytheresa

Valentino Bow-detail silk crêpe blouse
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Valentino

Bow-detail silk crêpe blouse

$1,520

$1,900

Mytheresa

Tory Burch Tie-neck georgette blouse
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Tory Burch

Tie-neck georgette blouse

$476

$680

Mytheresa

Tuckernuck White Satin Brianna Bow Blouse
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Tuckernuck

White Satin Brianna Bow Blouse

$188

Tuckernuck

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@alicia_krakowska_hadid
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Pleated Midi Skirt
Pleats give graceful movement and project softness. When paired with a crisp top, they make for a smart, approachable outfit.
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Pleated Midi Skirt
@alicia_krakowska_hadid
Pleats give graceful movement and project softness. When paired with a crisp top, they make for a smart, approachable outfit.
Proenza Schouler Miles pleated jersey midi skirt
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Proenza Schouler

Miles pleated jersey midi skirt

$223

$495

Outnet

Theory Pleated lace midi skirt
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Theory

Pleated lace midi skirt

$268

$595

Outnet

Etro Plissé high-rise floral midi skirt
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Etro

Plissé high-rise floral midi skirt

$1,400

$1,750

Mytheresa

MIKAEL AGHAL Pleated floral-print chiffon midi skirt
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MIKAEL AGHAL

Pleated floral-print chiffon midi skirt

$216

$478

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@jordannasharp
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Liquid Satin Camisole
Satin camisoles in muted tones add a touch of shine without being flashy. They’re trending right now and look quietly luxe when styled with a blazer or lightweight cardigan.
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Liquid Satin Camisole
@jordannasharp
Satin camisoles in muted tones add a touch of shine without being flashy. They’re trending right now and look quietly luxe when styled with a blazer or lightweight cardigan.
JOSEPH Clea silk satin camisole
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JOSEPH

Clea silk satin camisole

$276

$395

Mytheresa

Elie Tahari Silk Satin Cami
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Elie Tahari

Silk Satin Cami

$109

$168

Elie Tahari

Gabriela Hearst Arrow silk top
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Gabriela Hearst

Arrow silk top

$903

$1,290

Mytheresa

Elie Tahari Silk Satin Cami
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Elie Tahari

Silk Satin Cami

$109

$168

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@sincerelyjules
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Micro Cardigan
A cropped, body-skimming knit cardigan is softly feminine but contemporary. Layer over a delicate camisole or blouse for effortless warmth and sophistication.
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Micro Cardigan
@sincerelyjules
A cropped, body-skimming knit cardigan is softly feminine but contemporary. Layer over a delicate camisole or blouse for effortless warmth and sophistication.
AFRM Linda Top
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AFRM

Linda Top

$24.5

$98

Shopbop

Jil Sander Ribbed-knit silk cardigan
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Jil Sander

Ribbed-knit silk cardigan

$1,272

$1,590

Mytheresa

LESET Blake ribbed Lurex cardigan
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LESET

Blake ribbed Lurex cardigan

$360

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Safiyaa Indre wool-blend cardigan
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Safiyaa

Indre wool-blend cardigan

$677

$968

Mytheresa

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@koolkelsey
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Cigarette Pants
Slim, tailored cigarette pants offer structure and subtle confidence without overpowering your softer pieces. They’re also easy to pair with blouses or knits for a polished finish.
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Cigarette Pants
@koolkelsey
Slim, tailored cigarette pants offer structure and subtle confidence without overpowering your softer pieces. They’re also easy to pair with blouses or knits for a polished finish.
KHAITE Lenn high-rise crepe pants
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KHAITE

Lenn high-rise crepe pants

$1,480

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Elie Tahari T-Tahari Slim Pull on Pant
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Elie Tahari

T-Tahari Slim Pull on Pant

$35

$88

Elie Tahari

Elie Tahari Slim Slit Pant
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Elie Tahari

Slim Slit Pant

$118

$295

Elie Tahari

LOULOU DE SAISON Malka wool-blend twill skinny pants
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LOULOU DE SAISON

Malka wool-blend twill skinny pants

$168

$420

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@whatjazwears
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Sheer Long Sleeve Top
Second-skin sheer tops—layered over a tonal camisole—feel delicate but fashion-forward, perfectly embodying quiet confidence. Opt for neutral or pastel hues to keep the look soft and approachable.
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Sheer Long Sleeve Top
@whatjazwears
Second-skin sheer tops—layered over a tonal camisole—feel delicate but fashion-forward, perfectly embodying quiet confidence. Opt for neutral or pastel hues to keep the look soft and approachable.
moco Silk Sheer Tie Blouse
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moco

Silk Sheer Tie Blouse

$310

moco

Veronica Beard Alyssa silk-chiffon blouse
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Veronica Beard

Alyssa silk-chiffon blouse

$282

$470

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TOTEME Layered lace top
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TOTEME

Layered lace top

$245

$980

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Veronica Beard Alyssa Silk Blouse
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Veronica Beard

Alyssa Silk Blouse

$131.04

$468

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@alicecatherine
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Granny-Inspired Vintage Blouse
Vintage blouses with tie-fronts or subtle lace accents are romantic and unique, projecting a gentle charm that’s sure to draw in fellow guests for conversation.
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Granny-Inspired Vintage Blouse
@alicecatherine
Vintage blouses with tie-fronts or subtle lace accents are romantic and unique, projecting a gentle charm that’s sure to draw in fellow guests for conversation.
Elie Tahari Silk Tie Button Shirt
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Elie Tahari

Silk Tie Button Shirt

$261

$348

Elie Tahari

Elie Tahari Silk Draped Neck Shirt
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Elie Tahari

Silk Draped Neck Shirt

$130

$325

Elie Tahari

Alessandra Rich Bow-detailed polka-dot silk-crepe blouse
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Alessandra Rich

Bow-detailed polka-dot silk-crepe blouse

$548

$1,370

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Chloé Lace-trimmed silk crêpe de chine blouse
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Chloé

Lace-trimmed silk crêpe de chine blouse

$1,672

$2,090

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@thecarolinelin
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Kitten Heels
Low, elegant heels in nude or blush tones are comfortable for mingling and add just the right amount of polish—confident but never brash.
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Kitten Heels
@thecarolinelin
Low, elegant heels in nude or blush tones are comfortable for mingling and add just the right amount of polish—confident but never brash.
Dolce Vita Alenna Slingback Heels
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Dolce Vita

Alenna Slingback Heels

$150

Shopbop

AEYDE Camila Snake Print Calf Leather Creamy Heels
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AEYDE

Camila Snake Print Calf Leather Creamy Heels

$545

Shopbop

Sam Edelman Bianka Sling Pumps
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Sam Edelman

Bianka Sling Pumps

$150

Shopbop

GIANVITO ROSSI Robbie Sling Camoscio 55mm
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GIANVITO ROSSI

Robbie Sling Camoscio 55mm

$950

Shopbop

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@s.u.a.m.a.r
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Pleated Wide-Leg Pants
Elegantly draped wide-leg pants feel relaxed yet sophisticated—especially when paired with a delicate top. They exude unforced confidence and comfort for an evening spent networking.
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Pleated Wide-Leg Pants
@s.u.a.m.a.r
Elegantly draped wide-leg pants feel relaxed yet sophisticated—especially when paired with a delicate top. They exude unforced confidence and comfort for an evening spent networking.
moco Pleated Detail Wide Leg Pants
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moco

Pleated Detail Wide Leg Pants

$179

$210

moco

Tuckernuck Light Mink Nova Pleated Pant
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Tuckernuck

Light Mink Nova Pleated Pant

$425

Tuckernuck

Max Mara Palanca pleated jersey wide-leg pants
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Max Mara

Palanca pleated jersey wide-leg pants

$508

$1,015

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16Arlington Mandrake plissé-satin wide-leg pants
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16Arlington

Mandrake plissé-satin wide-leg pants

$210

$420

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Nili Lotan Celestine printed jersey shirt
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Nili Lotan

Celestine printed jersey shirt

$313

$695

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Dorothee Schumacher Emotional Essence cropped flared pants
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Dorothee Schumacher

Emotional Essence cropped flared pants

$490

Mytheresa

By Malene Birger Ophie crepe blazer
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By Malene Birger

Ophie crepe blazer

$280

$700

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Dorothee Schumacher Emotional Essence cropped blazer
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Dorothee Schumacher

Emotional Essence cropped blazer

$690

Mytheresa

Brunello Cucinelli Bead-embellished cotton-blend blazer
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Brunello Cucinelli

Bead-embellished cotton-blend blazer

$1,199

$3,995

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TOTEME Crochet top
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TOTEME

Crochet top

$177

$590

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TOVE Nuala draped top
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TOVE

Nuala draped top

$605

$865

Mytheresa

Victoria Beckham Silk crepe de chine blouse
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Victoria Beckham

Silk crepe de chine blouse

$340

$850

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Nili Lotan Joris draped silk-satin camisole
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Nili Lotan

Joris draped silk-satin camisole

$163

$325

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Velvet Tabbi jersey top
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Velvet

Tabbi jersey top

$94

$235

Mytheresa

LOULOU DE SAISON Remy knotted silk-twill top
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LOULOU DE SAISON

Remy knotted silk-twill top

$183

$365

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Vince Crepe blouse
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Vince

Crepe blouse

$148

$368

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Proenza Schouler Hadley double-breasted tweed blazer
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Proenza Schouler

Hadley double-breasted tweed blazer

$1,145

$2,290

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Vince Wool and cashmere-blend sweater
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Vince

Wool and cashmere-blend sweater

$224

$448

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Vince Draped silk satin top
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Vince

Draped silk satin top

$345

Mytheresa

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Vince Wool and cashmere-blend polo sweater
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Vince

Wool and cashmere-blend polo sweater

$164

$328

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TOTEME High-rise satin straight pants
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TOTEME

High-rise satin straight pants

$378

$540

Mytheresa

Tuckernuck Black Audrey Pants
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Tuckernuck

Black Audrey Pants

$168

Tuckernuck

Vince Silk-blend satin shirt
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Vince

Silk-blend satin shirt

$364

$520

Mytheresa

TOTEME Satin top
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TOTEME

Satin top

$350

$500

Mytheresa

BRAND RECOMMENDATION
Jacques Wei
Jacques Wei is a true hidden gem for those seeking sophistication through minimalism — their tailored separates boast clean lines and refined neutrals, making each piece quietly confident yet undeniably polished. This brand’s understated tailoring will see you perfectly attired for any networking setting while setting you elegantly apart from the crowd.
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BRAND RECOMMENDATION
Jacques Wei
Jacques Wei is a true hidden gem for those seeking sophistication through minimalism — their tailored separates boast clean lines and refined neutrals, making each piece quietly confident yet undeniably polished. This brand’s understated tailoring will see you perfectly attired for any networking setting while setting you elegantly apart from the crowd.
Jacques Wei Lace-trimmed satin miniskirt
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Jacques Wei

Lace-trimmed satin miniskirt

$390

Mytheresa

Jacques Wei Gathered striped cotton-blend top
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Jacques Wei

Gathered striped cotton-blend top

$425

Mytheresa

Jacques Wei Embellished midi skirt
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Jacques Wei

Embellished midi skirt

$392

$560

Mytheresa

Jacques Wei Satin pencil skirt
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Jacques Wei

Satin pencil skirt

$505

Mytheresa

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Theory Ruffled silk crepe de chine top
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Theory

Ruffled silk crepe de chine top

$120

$265

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Etro High-rise cotton slim pants
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Etro

High-rise cotton slim pants

$504

$720

Mytheresa

Gabriela Hearst Stephanie cashmere blazer
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Gabriela Hearst

Stephanie cashmere blazer

$1,575

$2,250

Mytheresa

KALLMEYER Jocelyn draped stretch-jersey top
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KALLMEYER

Jocelyn draped stretch-jersey top

$465

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Theory Double-breasted wool-twill blazer
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Theory

Double-breasted wool-twill blazer

$288

$575

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Elie Tahari Crepe Overlay Slit Pant
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Elie Tahari

Crepe Overlay Slit Pant

$233

$388

Elie Tahari

Another Tomorrow Wool sweater
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Another Tomorrow

Wool sweater

$340

$850

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JOSEPH Tunis high-rise cotton wide-leg pants
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JOSEPH

Tunis high-rise cotton wide-leg pants

$472

$675

Mytheresa

Theory Silk crepe de chine shirt
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Theory

Silk crepe de chine shirt

$123

$245

Outnet

Nili Lotan Juste printed silk crepe de chine shirt
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Nili Lotan

Juste printed silk crepe de chine shirt

$179

$595

Outnet

Max Mara Circense virgin wool blazer
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Max Mara

Circense virgin wool blazer

$1,790

Mytheresa

JOSEPH Bley silk tank top
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JOSEPH

Bley silk tank top

$262

$375

Mytheresa

JOSEPH Tafira gabardine flared pants
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JOSEPH

Tafira gabardine flared pants

$545

Mytheresa

TOVE Bonnie cotton-blend vest
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TOVE

Bonnie cotton-blend vest

$517

$739

Mytheresa

Cinq à Sept Crepe Khloe Blazer
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Cinq à Sept

Crepe Khloe Blazer

$395

Cinq a Sept

Theory Wool-blend blazer
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Theory

Wool-blend blazer

$198

$395

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Victoria Beckham Silk crepe de chine blouse
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Victoria Beckham

Silk crepe de chine blouse

$383

$850

Outnet

Theory Etiennette wool-blend blazer
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Theory

Etiennette wool-blend blazer

$192

$425

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TOVE Edel ruched draped jersey top
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TOVE

Edel ruched draped jersey top

$508

$635

Mytheresa

Diane von Furstenberg Eli mesh top
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Diane von Furstenberg

Eli mesh top

$212

$265

Mytheresa

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